Chivalry Ain’t Dead…but Women Are Slowly Killing It.
Just like KassyK (yes, the woman is a goddess), I sometimes drunkenly write about things and include information I wouldn’t normally. Last night was one of those nights.
Firstly, I apologize to anyone who had to deal with my drunken, (more-than) slightly misogynistic rant earlier today. The funny part is, I thought I had gotten rid of it (set it to DRAFT in WordPress), but apparently, people were still able to view it. I definitely need to talk to the DevTeam about that.
But, part of it, I will not apologize about. Women in this town make men in this town crazy. Period. Having to deal with drama queens and all the bullshit that goes along with it will drive a man to drink…if they’re not already heavy drinkers. I try to be the “Southern Gentleman” I was raised as…but after dealing with DC women for any extended period of time, the shit you have to deal with will make even the most gracious “gentleman” more than a bit misogynistic, sadly.
Yes, I know part of my frustration stems from being utterly alone on Turkey Day (my family is back in TX and I only go to visit them on Christmas)…and part of it stems from being utterly alone for more than a few years (only one, unsuccessful date and no girlfriends for 3+ years), but, Hell! We have to vent sometimes. The problem is that most of the time, our vents bring out the worst in us…which puts even more people off.
ANY-FUCKING-WAY… I apologize to those that read my load of hateful crap…and I apologize to those it was directed towards. You had no clue that I SUCK at meeting women in bars (I’m much better online…how pathetic is that?!?) and I might have even misunderstood your reactions (although there is NO way you could misconstrue the brunette’s reaction…holy HELL, I’ve never met such an unhappy bitch…and I do NOT use that word lightly). The point is: all in all, I apologize for my unbloggerlike venting.
I hope that one day, my readers will forgive me.
I’ll have some random thoughts about Turkey Day and holidays in general, tomorrow.
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First of all, greetings from TX (Dallas to be exact) wish you were here. Secondly, I have heard/read your rantings on DC women in the past and so it beggs the question - what did we do this time? For I am not about to apologize on behalf n my gender (which i am more than willing to do if deserved) without first knowing the offense, evidence, etc. I look forward to hearing the facts of the case.
Darlin’, first of all, I totally wish I was back in TX for the holiday season. I’ll be back for Christmas, but was not for Turkey Day.
Second of all, nobody, least of all YOU, needs to apologize for anything. The only one who *might* need to apologize is the brunette, but her blonde friends was getting all the attention from the guys and I guess she was stuck in automatic, selfish, cockblocker mode. Her loss. I was more attracted to her than the blonde, but that didn’t last long…for obvious reasons.
Other than that, I’m just going to try to forget the clusterfuck that was TG night and go on with “Life In DC.” ;)
I’m curious! What happened?
I had a conversation with my friend Corey on this exact topic roughly three hours ago. He also feels rather frustrated as to woman’s reactions during courtship - like opening a door for a young lady. Some woman actually told him, “pig, you think i can’t open it myself.” Corey, you’re a sweetheart and all men like you are a blessing.
I was raised slightly old fashioned in my way of thinking, so when it comes to how a man treats a lady, I want to see a man with self-restraint at all times–the whole 10 yards. ..And I never ever want to see any man raise his hand at a woman; it’s a sign of respect. And lady’s be compassionate and loving individuals to men; they have feelings as well!
My problem is usually finding the “nice guys,” because there are so many assholes - simply put. It’s funny because I was told that no women ever consider the intelligent, loving and relationship aspiring males.
Slightly on a tangent but–I’m offset with the idea that women have now embraced the idea , “if you got it, flaunt it.” Well, “I got it,” but i will not “flaunt it.”
I watched a video on the pussy cat dolls online just now and I was simply repulsed as to the songs and the provocative outfits. Then they zoomed in showing the audience; and little girls aged 7-8 were there singing and dancing around to this crap. I’m horrified to think that this is my generation -
I’m twenty year old female living in Canada; and I feel that I am so apart from society today. With the people in my age category generally giving off slum-vibes. What ever happened to the days of dancing where the gentleman is gently holding a woman’s waist and hand in style? It’s dead and now a part of fairy tale land -
Now, where do you find woman that want chivalry — not in bars. Bars are the one place you don’t want to go to meet woman; they aren’t looking for commitment and neither are the men.
Try meeting woman with the same interest as you at an event you enjoy and then try and work your way from that. Big hint on some woman; those that are a little “nerdy” tend to be the best for long term relationships (Ex. the ones that like to read romance novels
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